Comments on: Scenes I like http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/ Fri, 10 Feb 2012 08:27:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.2 By: Aparna http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-91413 Aparna Thu, 23 Oct 2008 08:09:50 +0000 http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-91413 naane, :) naane,
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]]> By: naane http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-90766 naane Mon, 20 Oct 2008 22:04:59 +0000 http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-90766 ooops!!! you r right. I got it all too wrong! ooops!!! you r right. I got it all too wrong!

]]> By: Aparna http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-84956 Aparna Fri, 26 Sep 2008 08:43:20 +0000 http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-84956 Prithivi, Welcome to my blog! Didn’t know it would really be that therapeutic! :) Naane, You really should have watched this scene and then commented! You have got it all wrong. Do watch the movie and comment again. Nitin, Welcome to my blog! Thank you. Prithivi,
Welcome to my blog! Didn’t know it would really be that therapeutic! :)

Naane,
You really should have watched this scene and then commented! You have got it all wrong. Do watch the movie and comment again.

Nitin,
Welcome to my blog! Thank you.

]]> By: Nitin http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-84682 Nitin Wed, 24 Sep 2008 11:01:12 +0000 http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-84682 Hye, i somehow stumbled upon your site . Thouroughly enjoyed it . This is a very cute post. 3 Cheers for your good blog.... My best wishes.... lol, for a moment, i started imagining a voice reading out everything written , just like in old indian films, mainly in tamil. [ a rough female voice, guessing you are a female for sure, from your name] Anyways, what i wanted to say was, it was so nice .... :) Hye, i somehow stumbled upon your site . Thouroughly enjoyed it . This is a very cute post. 3 Cheers for your good blog…. My best wishes…. lol, for a moment, i started imagining a voice reading out everything written , just like in old indian films, mainly in tamil. [ a rough female voice, guessing you are a female for sure, from your name] Anyways, what i wanted to say was, it was so nice …. :)

]]> By: naane http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-83108 naane Wed, 17 Sep 2008 19:19:53 +0000 http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-83108 Yeah I liked your answer...thats what one one should do. Of course we need to express our anger!. Especially women in our society should do that more. When I heard some stories, I couldn't believe women (even well educated Phds and doctors) are still being abused in marriage relationship. Anyway, back to your blog, "the way Kareena makes Shahid tear his ex-girlfriend’s photo and flush it out and the way Shahid later makes Kareena call her ex-boyfriend and scold him with all the bad words!" The key word here is "makes"... I did not see the movie. So I don't know what does "the way" means. Based on other movies I have seen I am assuming they have used force of words, guilt,emotions,threat etc as "the way". (if this is not the case then you can ignore my comment below:) Ok What I don't understand is how can "making" the other person to do such thing would mend their own relationship?. If the other person is doing those things not of love but for other motive/reason, then what is point? If Shahid is still keeping his ex's memory, then he is not fully in love with Kareena... can she rewire his neurons too? Can you force someone to love you? If love is not the end result, then the whole scene portray some kind of revenge (if not sadistic) than mending relationship. Its a lose-lose situation. Again, I didn't see the movie... I am just imagining the scene where Kareena calls her ex-boyfriend. This poor guy gets a call at midnight and the person on the otherside (his ex-gf) simply scolds him with all kinds of bad words and puts the phone down... Yeah! we know she did that to prove her loyalty to her present bf. Come on! this is hilarious. It will work as a good comedy scence :) Yeah I liked your answer…thats what one one should do. Of course we need to express our anger!. Especially women in our society should do that more. When I heard some stories, I couldn’t believe women (even well educated Phds and doctors) are still being abused in marriage relationship.

Anyway, back to your blog,
“the way Kareena makes Shahid tear his ex-girlfriend’s photo and flush it out and the way Shahid later makes Kareena call her ex-boyfriend and scold him with all the bad words!”

The key word here is “makes”… I did not see the movie. So I don’t know what does “the way” means. Based on other movies I have seen I am assuming they have used force of words, guilt,emotions,threat etc as “the way”. (if this is not the case then you can ignore my comment below:)

Ok What I don’t understand is how can “making” the other person to do such thing would mend their own relationship?. If the other person is doing those things not of love but for other motive/reason, then what is point? If Shahid is still keeping his ex’s memory, then he is not fully in love with Kareena… can she rewire his neurons too? Can you force someone to love you? If love is not the end result, then the whole scene portray some kind of revenge (if not sadistic) than mending relationship. Its a lose-lose situation.

Again, I didn’t see the movie… I am just imagining the scene where Kareena calls her ex-boyfriend. This poor guy gets a call at midnight and the person on the otherside (his ex-gf) simply scolds him with all kinds of bad words and puts the phone down… Yeah! we know she did that to prove her loyalty to her present bf. Come on! this is hilarious. It will work as a good comedy scence :)

]]> By: Prithivi http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-83096 Prithivi Wed, 17 Sep 2008 15:40:36 +0000 http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-83096 Yeah i love those scenes TOOO --- especially because doing those things in real life also help. When I my ex cheated on me and betrayed me -- i did same exact things --- tore his picture and threw out all things that he had given me and also called him and abused him in the worst kinda words my English vocabulary was able to muster up --- not because he didn't understand Tamil but because i don't know enough Tamil words that would have described my state of mind --- and it was very therapeutic -- I was over the sorrowful state and him in no time !!!!!! :) Yeah i love those scenes TOOO — especially because doing those things in real life also help.
When I my ex cheated on me and betrayed me — i did same exact things — tore his picture and threw out all things that he had given me and also called him and abused him in the worst kinda words my English vocabulary was able to muster up — not because he didn’t understand Tamil but because i don’t know enough Tamil words that would have described my state of mind — and it was very therapeutic — I was over the sorrowful state and him in no time !!!!!! :)

]]> By: Aparna http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-83078 Aparna Wed, 17 Sep 2008 08:37:52 +0000 http://aparna-a.com/2008/09/17/scenes-i-like/#comment-83078 Vidhya, Same pinch ;) I remember your comment. :) This movie has become my favourite too now. Prasad, I don’t think that audio/article would interest me. So am not willing to test my patience. ;) Neither do I like betrayal scenes. That wasn’t a betrayal scene but a scene where they try to pull themselves out from their current sorrowful state. And that’s why I like those. One doesn’t deserve to be sad when the person who betrayed you is happily enjoying himself/herself somewhere. Vishnu, >a reaction like these would definitely help a lot to regain the confidence when someone dumps you I think so too Vidhya,
Same pinch ;) I remember your comment. :) This movie has become my favourite too now.

Prasad,
I don’t think that audio/article would interest me. So am not willing to test my patience. ;)

Neither do I like betrayal scenes. That wasn’t a betrayal scene but a scene where they try to pull themselves out from their current sorrowful state. And that’s why I like those. One doesn’t deserve to be sad when the person who betrayed you is happily enjoying himself/herself somewhere.

Vishnu,
>a reaction like these would definitely help a lot to regain the confidence when someone dumps you
I think so too

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